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Wasn't sure where to post this, I'm not really thinking straight at the moment.

On Wednesday afternoon my eldest daughter, Tamara, aged 9, was killed by a drunk driver while talking to a friend on the pavement. Her friend was also hit, but it seems Tamara was able to push her out the way, saving her. Thankfully it was instant, so my wee girl never felt anything.

Tamara loved the trains, especially the GNER HST's.

This is the first of me even switching the computer on since. Just wanted to let people know that I've not left the train sim scene and I'll be back when things get back to some kind of normality.

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Post by ccsdc »

Kerr,

I dont know what to say. I have 2 daughters myself (12 & 15) and the thought of anything happening to them would devastate me.

Deepest sympathies to you and your family at this sad time.

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I'm ever so sorry to hear that. :( I don't even know what to say.
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Post by JonathonAG »

I am so sorry Kerr, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. You must feel devestated, we don't know how much pain you must feel at this moment.

Sorry for you tragedy
Deepest sympathies

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Post by BR7MT »

Kerr, this is tragic news :cry:

As you say it is of consolation that it was instant and Tamara would have felt no pain. You should be proud that she saved the life of her friend. I am convinced that if you help your fellow humans then there is a place reserved for you in Heaven.

Words sometimes feel hollow in situations like this but I truely mean them.

God Bless and may Tamara Rest in Peace. :cry:

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I'm lost for word Kerr, to die so young is tragic.

My sympathies.

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Post by anamorph »

Kerr,
We are thinking of you here. Life can be so cruel at times it's hard to
find the words. I cant think of anything else to say except that i
hope you know you've got our very deepest sympathy and, well,
take care.
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Post by jbilton »

Kerr

The loss of a child is almost unbearable......and, in this case, so totally unnecessary.
I do hope the driver feels remorse.......but is still punished to the maximum the law will allow.
I hope you are able to get as much support and help from your FLO,
and I advise you and your family members, to except any councilling offered.
A colleage of mine lost his youngest daughter, in similar circumstances
My deepest felt sympathies.
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Post by alanhowat »

Hi Kerr,

I can only echo what has already been said and offer to you and your family our deepest sympathy.

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Kerr I am so sorry to hear of your tragedy. I'm lost for words...... Thinking of you at this very sad time.
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Deepest sympathies are with you mate. Aweful news.

In the 2mins silence tomorrow I will think of your duaghter while i stand in rememberance.
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Post by alisterbetts »

Kerr, as a father myself I just feel sick and hollow having read your note. You are in our thoughts at this time. Alister, Jo and Jessie
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Post by buffy500 »

Oh my god.

Nothing that anyone says can really make a difference at a time like this, but I hope you might be able to take some comfort from the fact you have everyones' sympathies.
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Post by poodles »

Kerr, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.

May Tamara lay peacefully in rest.

My thoughts are with you at this terrible time.
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Post by Optrex »

Kerr,

Dear God, what can one say? I can't even begin to imagine what you and your family must be going through.

Please accept my deepest sympathies at this terrible, tragic time.



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